A Woman's World

Aug 19, 2009

You know, I never realized before today that the "Blogosphere" was ran completely by women. Almost all the celebrity blogs are written by a woman. Most of the people on Blogspot are of the female persuasion. No matter where you look, all of the commentaries are usually from women. What gives? This may be the only time you here me say that I don't like being completely surrounded by women (I repeat--the ONLY time, LOL).

On one hand, I like the fact that most bloggers have curves, because I gain a lot of useful knowledge from a female's perspective (for example, over at Urban Gentleman I get useful style tips from a female who knows her stuff when it comes to men's fashion). Now on the other hand, blogging can become a drag when women dominate the comments....

....lemme tell you why...

I was over at TheYBF today doin my rounds and I noticed a trend in comments on a particular set of photos, showing Amber Rose topless in Miami Beach.

-Attention whore! (@ Lona)

-seriously-could she show less class?
I wish his mama was still alive to smack
him back into reality (@ future Mrs. Kwes)

-What a disgrace! Why is it that black men
do the most when they date a white girl?? (@ Miz b)

The entire time, I'm thinkin' to myself...she is CLEARLY on the nude portion of Miami Beach, probably Houlaver Beach Park. But anywho, I digress. I just decided to look at some older posts to see if the trend persisted and came across photos of NFL Athletes posing with up-and-coming R&B singers.

-See? THIS is the reason I became a football fan
...oooooh weeeeee!!! THE men!!!! (@ms. too good)

-I had to double back twice #1. because the men are so d*mn fine #2.
because the men were so d*mn fine! *sigh* (@Misses Tiny)

-Theres nothing like NFL eye candy!
you gotta be jokin that is too fine!
I really can't believe he is that fine!!!! (@Coco)

When the subject of the posts change, the hating subsides....I would call it lame, but it's worse than lame if you ask me. It was then that I realized that blogs were dominated by women...the majority of of 'em being Haters (with a capital "H"). They hate on Amber Rose, Rihanna, Cassie, Keri Hilson--ALL of whom I would take to the prom without hesitation (I kid, I kid). But what do I know, I'm only a male. I just wish more dudes had blogs, so y'all could see what went on through our heads. Maybe then women wouldn't waste so much time hatin' on other women, who we clearly find attractive. Don't believe me? Ask your boyfriend 'bout that Amber Rose chick.


Anonymous said...

You have a point. Women hating on each other is all over urban blogs, but we must be reading different ones. If you frequent more fashion blogs you'll read 90% positive comments about the women you mentioned above.

But also a women can almost never have an opinion without it being considered hating. (Thanks you gave me an idea, I'm going to blog about that topic). I don't consider it hating when people say Keri Hilson, Rihanna, Cassie can't sing, and Amber needs to put some clothes on, all those things are completely true. However I can give all those womens props for being beautiful and I respect their hustle.

Don't watch me, w-w-watch my feet....